Be Responsible For Myself

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Building the Sanctuary of Friendship

Building the Sanctuary of Friendship

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Aaron Abernathy
May 02, 2025
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True friendship is a sanctuary! A space where trust, authenticity, and emotional safety thrive. It’s a bond that doesn’t demand perfection but offers acceptance. Over the years, I’ve been blessed with friendships that felt like home, teaching me invaluable lessons about what it means to truly connect. These friendships didn’t happen by accident…I didn’t always understand this. In my younger years, I thought friendship was about proximity and shared interests, but life taught me otherwise. True friendship requires trust, emotional safety, and a willingness to show up for one another.

We’re all responsible for ourselves, and in friendships, this means taking ownership of how we show up and the ENERGY we bring to intentionally cultivate sacred spaces where all parties feels seen, heard, and valued.


Lessons from My Sanctuary of Friendship

  1. Trust is Earned, Not Assumed:

    • One of my closest friends and I built trust over years of showing up for each other in big and small ways. Trust isn’t given…it’s cultivated through consistency.

  2. Vulnerability Deepens Bonds:

    • When I shared my struggles openly with a friend, it strengthened our connection. Vulnerability invites authenticity and creates space for deeper understanding.

  3. Boundaries Strengthen Relationships:

    • Healthy boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re frameworks that ensure respect and emotional safety! One of my friendships improved dramatically when we learned to communicate our limits.


Practical Steps to Cultivate Deep Friendships

  1. Offer Unconditional Presence:

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